In today’s rapidly changing world, parents face a unique challenge: raising well-rounded children amidst the ever-growing influence of technology.
I explore the evolving role of parents in a child’s development, emphasizing the importance of balancing cultural traditions with navigating the digital age.
Gone are the days of a “responsible community” solely shaping a child’s upbringing. While cultural traditions hold value, the modern world presents a vast online community children readily access. However, this online access can come with its drawbacks, exposing them to potentially harmful information.
The emphasis on a child’s holistic development – encompassing spiritual, physical, emotional, mental, and social well-being – has become paramount. This responsibility now largely falls on parents and schools, ensuring children grow into well-adjusted adults in a globalized environment.
Technology has significantly impacted how children learn. Unlike the past where parents were the primary source of information, anyone with an internet connection can potentially influence a child’s learning. This highlights the crucial need for parental involvement in a child’s digital life.
Strategies for Modern Parents
- Building Strong Bonds: Establishing and nurturing a strong bond with your child is crucial for their cognitive and social development. Regular, intentional interactions like open conversations and shared activities foster healthy growth.
- Promoting Social Development: Social interaction plays a vital role in a child’s development. Facilitate opportunities for your child to interact with other children, fostering social-emotional skills like problem-solving, empathy, and healthy relationships.
- Balancing Screen Time: Excessive screen time can hinder a child’s psychosocial development. Set boundaries and encourage activities beyond the digital world to ensure well-rounded growth.
The Importance of Parental Involvement
Research consistently shows that parental involvement in a child’s education, both academic and social-emotional, leads to better outcomes. In Kenya, for example, Section 53 of the Constitution guarantees every child the right to free basic education, placing the responsibility of facilitating education on parents.
Modern parents may be busy, but prioritizing quality time with their children is essential. Creating a supportive and engaging environment allows children to thrive. Remember, your presence and active involvement are the most valuable factors in raising a well-rounded child.
Anthony Mwangi, Leadership Teacher at Crawford International School.
